Only I know how I feel

It's very rare for me to actually open up to a person about anything. And even if I were to share how I feel no one but myself can know for sure how I feel. It could seem like something simple, or not a big deal but still, no one knows except for me. So for someone to tell me I can or can't do something or that I should, you're really in no position to tell me anything when you really have no idea.

Just because...

Just because you're 18 and LEGALLY an adult it doesn't mean you are MENTALLY.

Just because you can do something, it doesn't mean you should.

Just because you think you know everything, it doesn't mean you do.

Just because you think nobody has been where you are, it doesn't mean you're right.

Just because you're not forced to deal with something today, it doesn't mean you should ignore it.

Just because your parents are driving you crazy, it doesn't mean you should run away.

Just because you have restrictions that you don't agree with, it doesn't mean to rebel.

Just because you think you'll get your happily ever after, it doesn't mean you will.



Running away from one problem and jumping into something else too quickly when you're not ready does not mean all your problems will go away. Things will be much harder for you. You're setting yourself up for disaster and heartache. If someone has been where you are, LEARN FROM THEIR EXPERIENCE.

Ugh

I don't know what it is but I'm really bugged by this. Maybe it's because I'm completely fed up with people always just jumping to conclusions, maybe not. But whatever the reason is it doesn't change the fact that it's frustrating to deal with.

When someone makes a statement, without giving ALL the details as to why they feel or think that way (because it would take too long to go through) why do other people just assume something negative or a flaw in their thinking without trying to find out WHY they are making that statement in the first place? Making it seem like that person (again, assuming) didn't think things through or try to see all sides before verbalizing their opinion.

What is with people just assuming or coming to their own conclusions without trying to find out all the facts first?

It needs to stop because one of these days I will probably end up just blowing up on whoever is doing that and putting them in their place for not using their brain.

To those who personally know me

I want all of you to know that if you hear from ANYONE but myself or Tommy the "reasons" why I don't do this or that, or why I do certain things, don't pay any attention to them. Why? Because for starters who gave them permission to talk negatively about me, and because I don't ever tell people my reasons for doing or not doing something. So these people who do blurt out these "reasons" are just saying what THEY believe to be true. If you want the truth about me, ASK ME. I'm so sick of people saying wrong things about me which makes me look bad.